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Why Did I Get Married???

Few days’ back one reader left a comment ‘Why did I get married???’…strange thing nobody ever asked and I never answered…but reader gave me a reason to write…

Well I didn’t got married because I was in love…that’s a usual response but I am not a usual girl…I got married because…he is the first thing I want to see in the morning till my last breath…I want him in every second of my life…while writing this I want him to sit next to me…I love to groove on his tunes…he makes night dreams bearable…I want him to be there in ups & downs of life…I want him to hold me when I tumbledown…I want him to be around when I achieve something…I want him to be part of my happiness…I want him to be the reason for my happiness…and guess what…he is…yes he makes me smile in the worst times…he brings sparks to dull routine…people say for how long???…true for how long…well until we become the same old boring couple…we will make every day every moment count…he is worth dying for…I want him because he makes the life worth living for…if you call this love…well I am deeply and madly in love with me…I am head over heels…

Love ❤ AARYA

PS…my husband’s response after reading this post ‘You wrote this for me???’ …husbands I tell you…emoticon-raising-eyebrow

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It’s too late…

‘Give him a divorce’ she said coolly ‘You are not happy in this relation, look what he has done to you…don’t you feel suffocated…you are always crying and cribbing…so get a divorce’

She looked at her with moist eyes and smiled ‘It’s not easy Tanya, to get up and give divorce, 30 years of marriage later it feels funny’

‘No there’s nothing funny about it Mom, you think that Vivan and I aren’t aware about the relation you shared with Dad…we always knew that you are not made for each other…he doesn’t like you, for him wife is just a trophy to flaunt in the society…to give food and have sex with…you given up half of your life to this dead relation…what you got…migraine and so many health problems which no doctor in the world can understand…few years of your life are left…don’t you feel like breathing fresh air…living once just for once…on your terms’

She waited for her mom to say something but when she didn’t…she continued ‘Maa Vivan and I will always support you…just let us know if you want to go ahead with divorce…don’t worry about money we are doing good…anyway you will get half of dad’s property in alimony…so money isn’t an issue’ she winked

She smiled softly and said ‘Tanya it’s not that easy…within few years I realized his hatred towards me…but I was helpless because both of you were so small…and most importantly I was dependent…I didn’t have enough qualification to start a job…when your nanaji used to tell me to work as a teacher I never took him seriously…and by the time I thought about working, it was too late…now few years are left…I am 50, why to go through all this fuss?’

‘Why didn’t you work?’

‘You know I was young and naïve…but you my dear…never leave your job…I know Sahil loves you and takes great care of you…but sometimes husbands change I hope that day never comes in your life…so keep working just for fun…there are many women who wants to run away from bad marriages but they can’t’

‘Because they are dependent just like you’ she completed the sentence for her mom…she got up and gave a tight hug to her mom and said ‘I don’t know how much I can understand your decision to stay in this marriage…but we would always be there by your side just in case you change your mind’  

Love AARYA

She is my wife…

She wakes up early, prepares breakfast and pack everyone’s lunch…and before the alarm starts ringing…my tea is on night stand with the morning paper…once everyone leaves, she makes the house spick and span…she goes from room to room…picking up things which I left here and there…from socks to toffee rappers…from car keys to chargers…she takes shower, get dressed and leaves for the work…she comes early so that I can have evening tea on time…even if I am behaving like a jerk…she opens the door with a smile…she fixes dinner for everyone…serve it hot…gives my fav sweet dish before I sink in…she goes back to her kitchen…and spend couple of hours there…she comes in between to see what I am doing…she puts a warm blanket so I don’t get cold…once she is done with everything…she slip next to me without disturbing my sleep…and next day…she wakes up early…

She is my wife…over the years…when she took the place of my mum…I didn’t realize…but suddenly she has become the necessity…not because she cleans and sweeps…no I can have a servant for that…but she loves me, nourishes me…she turned four brick walls into a beautiful home…Our Home Sweet Home…

I always paid respect to my mother for doing everything for me…she carried me for nine months…there’s a blood relation so love is obvious…but I am not related to my wife, she didn’t carry me for nine months…still she does everything for me just the way my mum used to do it…

If I can appreciate my mother…why can’t I appreciate my wife…if I can give respect to my mom…why can’t I respect my wife…I think I can…what about you???

Love AARYA

 

KARVA CHAUTH…festival of love and only love…

“OMG…you are looking so pretty…what’s the occasion?”

“It’s Karvachauth”

“Karva what?”

63153_113293175497455_1854137543_nYeah you heard me right it’s KARVA CHAUTH…it’s one of the festival celebrated in northern region of India…all married women fast for their husband’s good health and longevity…and by fast I mean they are not allowed to have a single drop of water too…

On this day…wife prepares lots of yummy dishes like kachori, dahi bade, phool gobi ki sabzi (cauliflower), kadi chawal, yummm…it’s dawat-e-khaas …well I like KARVA CHAUTH because it means cauliflower season is here 😛 …

In the evening wifey dear gets ready as if she is about get married again… of course with the same man 😀 believe me today every married woman looks like bride…beautiful and blushing…and today most of the husband’s go gaga over their wives 😉  …and when KARVA CHAUTH falls on weekend…yippee…we can extend the night 😀

Now after giving arghya(offering water) to Chand (Moon)…we wives can eat…but problem is this Chand I mean MOON…he will show all the tantrums like a lady…everyday he will be outside my balcony by 730…but on KARVA CHAUTH he will come by 9…now you people tell me is this fair?…I mean I am starving and thirsty…and he is lost in his own world…60007163a8bb0d87dd67c84001947f2b

But KARVA CHAUTH’s Moon is the beautiful moon of the year…if you don’t believe me…don’t forget to check it out in the evening…of course there is one condition…check the moon rise timings and don’t miss it…you have to be patient…after all it’s his day…so he will be in his own grandeur attitude…but I can bet you will be awestruck by its beauty…he will make slow and steady entry like a bride and will look red in color like a blushing bride…

Well there is story behind celebrating KARVA CHAUTH…here is the link you can read it for more information…http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Karva_Chauth

You must be thinking what am I doing…why am I talking to you on KARVA CHAUTH…you see my darling Moon is went outside due some urgent work…so am waiting for him 😦

But you guys have awesome weekend…and a HAPPY KARVA CHAUTH to all my Indian readers…love ❤  ya…

Waiting for my Moon…AARYA