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Am I A GOOD MOTHER???

Motherhood: All Love Begins and Ends there – Robert Browning

What do you mean by Motherhood? Who according to you is a Prefect Mother? …your mom, your best friend’s mom or your neighbor’s mom…or you believe there is nothing like Prefect Mother

There is no formula for Perfect Mother but million ways to be a Good Mother

In my opinion…a Good Mother is the one who gives…values & virtues which are necessary to live in harmony with the mankind…who develops positive attitude towards failure & success of life…who develops a good moral character…who tells humanity is the God of all religions…who develops respect towards all culture & tradition irrespective of gender and caste…who respects humanity…for me she is a Good Mother

But question is how many women or shall I say mothers are capable of nurturing their children in moral aspect???…Very Few…Right

Look around and do a quick scanning…how many women you know who falls in this category…may be one or two…or still thinking…I know I am so rude…but ask yourself…am I really wrong???…

Don’t you feel that somewhere down the line…mothers are not being honest with their creations anymore…people have become more selfish & harsh…humanity is missing…heinous crimes like gang rape, acid attacks have become part of every day’s news…killing for small things…where are we going…what are we doing…we have created a Value Less Society…who is responsible???

Of course…we cannot play the blame game with mothers…but they are the root of every human being…and if it’s infected the plant and fruits are ought to be sour in taste…a mothers attitude affects the personality of a child very deeply…most of the women don’t have emotional, mental & social stability which is a must for being a mother…after all it’s a huge responsibility…she is nurturing the future generation of a society & a country…and I am sure you cannot deny that fact…

Women who don’t have children due to any reason are often insulted…you can never understood motherhood…and the pain through which she has to go…I agree…that nine month’s journey brings lots of changes in a woman body…but does it bring mental changes which are more important…again the answer is NO…

There are women who are not biological mother of their children…still they have set an example for society… for becoming a Good Mother…you don’t have to go through 9 months painful journey…it depends on your ability to love unconditionally…your ability to develop a balanced personality of your child…your ability to stay honest and true not only to your child but oneself too…

We keep on learning till the end of life…but values & virtues developed at early stages of life works as a foundation…what you get or give your child is not important…but what he becomes counts the most

Are you doing justice to the best gift bestowed upon you by God?

Love AARYA

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Our Friend & Foe…Define Us…

Any person, who has same virtues & values like yours…he will either become a foe or a friend…believe me or not…it’s true…

You share same values with your best buddy…but you also share same values with your foe…have you ever thought of it…I can bet…you haven’t…

Before falling for anyone’s friendship…we make sure that his thoughts and attitude matches ours…if he doesn’t fall as per our set standards…we move on…or keep it till hi-hello…

We hate our enemy from bottom of our heart…why???…because he is our equivalent…he beats us in every field…thoughts, actions, virtues & values…will you hate the person whose standards are lower than yours…who is cheap in thinking…no you will not…instead you will pity on him…

That’s why also we heard…people who were best friends became worst enemy…you can only hate the person whom you loved the most…and sometimes your worst enemies becomes your best buddies…because your virtues are same… 

It’s human nature…we cannot compromise on our values under any circumstances…so we always give place to only those people in our life…whose values are similar to ours…they can be family, friends or worst enemy…

But it’s difficult to trust humans…when our friend will turn into a foe or a foe into a friend…nobody knows…we are weird creation of God…and our mind is more weirder than anything else in this universe…

Our friends and foes…always define us…choose them wisely…till next time 🙂

Love ❤ AARYA

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