Our Friend & Foe…Define Us…

Any person, who has same virtues & values like yours…he will either become a foe or a friend…believe me or not…it’s true…

You share same values with your best buddy…but you also share same values with your foe…have you ever thought of it…I can bet…you haven’t…

Before falling for anyone’s friendship…we make sure that his thoughts and attitude matches ours…if he doesn’t fall as per our set standards…we move on…or keep it till hi-hello…

We hate our enemy from bottom of our heart…why???…because he is our equivalent…he beats us in every field…thoughts, actions, virtues & values…will you hate the person whose standards are lower than yours…who is cheap in thinking…no you will not…instead you will pity on him…

That’s why also we heard…people who were best friends became worst enemy…you can only hate the person whom you loved the most…and sometimes your worst enemies becomes your best buddies…because your virtues are same… 

It’s human nature…we cannot compromise on our values under any circumstances…so we always give place to only those people in our life…whose values are similar to ours…they can be family, friends or worst enemy…

But it’s difficult to trust humans…when our friend will turn into a foe or a foe into a friend…nobody knows…we are weird creation of God…and our mind is more weirder than anything else in this universe…

Our friends and foes…always define us…choose them wisely…till next time 🙂

Love ❤ AARYA

WOW Prompt

 

A letter to a…long lost friend…

Hello S…my old friend…

It’s being so long…we haven’t spoken…I tried to call you, number of times but you always avoided me…was it my fault that you chose a different path…didn’t I ask you to tell your parents about him…but you never listened…since day one I asked you to leave him but you didn’t…you didn’t leave him until you got married to A…

I am sure A must be a nice guy…and you must be super happy with him…but what hurts me the most…that you broke all connections with me because you thought…I will spill the beans in front of your husband…you thought I will judge you…that is such a typical Indian mentally…

First have an affair with someone whom you are never going to get married…then those who stood by you for years…cut them off as if they are some kind of cancer…I was always there for you in thick and thin…even when you were in live-in…after 20 years of relationship later…you think I will judge you… that is the most hurtful thing a person can do…

Without taking too much of your time…I just want you to know that…I always loved you and still do…and I will always be there for you till the end of time…you left a wound…

A true friend will never judge…he will always stand for you under any circumstances…I hope you could understand it someday…

Love AARYA

PS…This post is part of this week’s WOW PROMPT