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An Open Letter…

Dear ___________

When you go through old albums…you will only find happy moments…but in between those moments there have been times when you have to work on your relation…the first year of marriage is a dreamland…afterward …Marriage becomes daily work in progress…but our parents never disclose this secret…and doesn’t matter…its love or arranged every couple goes through this phase…small things that you like initially will start irritating later…one day you love that person next day you hate them…sometimes we compromise willingly and sometimes unwillingly…there would be moments when you feel like giving up…when you will feel ‘I am done with him/her’…but don’t…stick around and things will fall into places…quitting is easy but staying and making things work is difficult…

You must be thinking why I am saying all this to you…frankly speaking I don’t know but I guess you will listen…or maybe I don’t want a beautiful girl like you to lose her charm and identity…

It was a pleasure meeting an interesting person like you…

Good luck for future…

May you have a rocking career…

May you have an amazing married life…filled with love and prosperity…

May God Bless You…

Love ❤ AARYA

 

 

 

Friends Forever…

Dear Veda

Hope this letter finds you in the pink of health…do you remember we used to write this tacky line in every letter in English Language Exam 😀 …but I really hope this letter finds you in great health…I don’t know where to start from…last year your life went upside down…when a beautiful angel walked in your world…I still remember the day when you told me you are pregnant…I cannot tell you darling how happy I am for you…however, I am still angry that you told me so late…how could you do this to me…I don’t want kids doesn’t mean I would be angry with you if you want to have one…

Your life is changing…hours and hours of chatting and video calling has been taken over by Mahi…you remember the last time when we were on Skype…this naughty girl of yours was throwing all kinda tantrums to get attention…you know a lot has happened in the past year…and today I am quite firm about my decision of not having kids…yeah yeah you can give me a long lecture on benefits of having babies later…I just want you to know I miss you at times…when I want to have some sensible discussion I miss us…when I see two girls in trail room I miss us…when I see two girls laughing out loud in a movie theatre I miss us…when I see two girls in a secluded corner of the coffee house, lost in deep conversation I miss us…I miss those carefree days…when we were just us…I wish we can go back in time and relive those times…

Time flies…and that too very fast…things would be different…you are a mother…and she needs 247 365 days surveillance…so you don’t get enough time for me…you would be more occupied in the coming years…however few years later when Mahi would be old enough…when she would be learning and growing with her gang of girls…feel free to call me…till then live and cherish each moment of your life…motherhood is the most precious gift of god…and I want you to live it to the fullest…just keep me updated with her lol videos and pics 🙂

And don’t you worry about me…I am doing great…I know what I want and I am very clear about it… you know when I see these young kids at school…I feel nostalgic…sometimes I smile randomly thinking about the fun we had…time passes…life changes…priority changes…but memories will last…

I don’t have to tell you how much I love you…chalo…I got to go my tooth is aching…and stomach is grumbling…catch you later…and do I have to wish you Friendship Day 😛

Love ❤ AARYA

‘This post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.’

Hope is may be…

Hope

Hope my teacher likes my essay…

Hope I crack this exam…

Hope my dad would be proud of me…

Hope my boss will sanction my leave…

Hope my client like this presentation…

Hope I reach on time…

Hope my bff approves him…

Hope this marriage works out…

Hope the kids get settled in life…

Hope my parents live long…

Hope I wake up tomorrow morning…hope is the reason we are living…hope is the reason we are fighting…hope is the reason we are moving forward…hope is the one who gives us strength in hard times…hope is the reason we smile…hope is the reason we experiment thinking next effort will yield positive result…hope is may be…hope is expectation…hope is desire…hope is wish…hope is trust…hope things will be better tomorrow…

Hope you have a beautiful day ahead…hope you read and write good stuff 🙂

Hope I have dreamless sleep

Love ❤ AARYA

Why Did I Get Married???

Few days’ back one reader left a comment ‘Why did I get married???’…strange thing nobody ever asked and I never answered…but reader gave me a reason to write…

Well I didn’t got married because I was in love…that’s a usual response but I am not a usual girl…I got married because…he is the first thing I want to see in the morning till my last breath…I want him in every second of my life…while writing this I want him to sit next to me…I love to groove on his tunes…he makes night dreams bearable…I want him to be there in ups & downs of life…I want him to hold me when I tumbledown…I want him to be around when I achieve something…I want him to be part of my happiness…I want him to be the reason for my happiness…and guess what…he is…yes he makes me smile in the worst times…he brings sparks to dull routine…people say for how long???…true for how long…well until we become the same old boring couple…we will make every day every moment count…he is worth dying for…I want him because he makes the life worth living for…if you call this love…well I am deeply and madly in love with me…I am head over heels…

Love ❤ AARYA

PS…my husband’s response after reading this post ‘You wrote this for me???’ …husbands I tell you…emoticon-raising-eyebrow