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Friends Forever…

Dear Veda

Hope this letter finds you in the pink of health‚Ķdo you remember we used to write this tacky line in every letter in English Language Exam ūüėÄ ‚Ķbut I really hope this letter finds you in great health‚ĶI don‚Äôt know where to start from‚Ķlast year your life went upside down‚Ķwhen a beautiful angel walked in your world‚ĶI still remember the day when you told me you are pregnant‚ĶI cannot tell you darling how happy I am for you‚Ķhowever, I am still angry that you told me so late‚Ķhow could you do this to me‚ĶI don‚Äôt want kids doesn‚Äôt mean I would be angry with you if you want to have one‚Ķ

Your life is changing…hours and hours of chatting and video calling has been taken over by Mahi…you remember the last time when we were on Skype…this naughty girl of yours was throwing all kinda tantrums to get attention…you know a lot has happened in the past year…and today I am quite firm about my decision of not having kids…yeah yeah you can give me a long lecture on benefits of having babies later…I just want you to know I miss you at times…when I want to have some sensible discussion I miss us…when I see two girls in trail room I miss us…when I see two girls laughing out loud in a movie theatre I miss us…when I see two girls in a secluded corner of the coffee house, lost in deep conversation I miss us…I miss those carefree days…when we were just us…I wish we can go back in time and relive those times…

Time flies‚Ķand that too very fast‚Ķthings would be different‚Ķyou are a mother‚Ķand she needs 247 365 days surveillance‚Ķso you don‚Äôt get enough time for me‚Ķyou would be more occupied in the coming years‚Ķhowever few years later when Mahi would be old enough‚Ķwhen she would be learning and growing with her gang of girls‚Ķfeel free to call me‚Ķtill then live and cherish each moment of your life‚Ķmotherhood is the most precious gift of god‚Ķand I want you to live it to the fullest‚Ķjust keep me updated with her lol videos and pics ūüôā

And don’t you worry about me…I am doing great…I know what I want and I am very clear about it… you know when I see these young kids at school…I feel nostalgic…sometimes I smile randomly thinking about the fun we had…time passes…life changes…priority changes…but memories will last…

I don‚Äôt have to tell you how much I love you‚Ķchalo‚ĶI got to go my tooth is aching‚Ķand stomach is grumbling‚Ķcatch you later‚Ķand do I have to wish you Friendship Day ūüėõ

Love ‚̧ AARYA

‚ÄėThis post is a part of Write Over the Weekend, an initiative for Indian Bloggers by BlogAdda.‚Äô

A Good Conversation…Is Very Erotic…

For a tête-à-tête…what’s the ideal number of people…well I must say I am impressed with today’s prompt…

When it comes to choosing number of people for a conversation…I always prefer Quality of People rather than Quantity…

For me if people have mental block…and are too conservative to accept the thoughts and opinions of others…well I am sorry but you may leave the room…

I always like to talk to people who makes sense…who are open minded…when it comes to discussing about bold topics like some social taboo…I give preference to people who are not judgmental…

I can’t stand who jump to conclusions very quickly…who start passing comment just because someone can talk about some social taboo boldly…I have seen if a girl talks about sex openly she is tagged as a slut…if you are that kinda person…you aren’t getting any invitation from my end…

It’s really difficult to find quality people in my country…usually people have some or the other mental block…they cannot discuss about something without passing judgments…as if they have done doctorate in that subject…

I like people who can keep rambling even if the topic becomes abstract‚ĶI like it when everyone is honest‚Ķand accepts the viewpoint of others‚ĶI know for some it‚Äôs a difficult task‚Ķbut it‚Äôs an art and only few can master ūüėČ ‚Ķand those who can are most welcome‚Ķ

Besides…discussions means making progress…you don’t have to be right…you are talking, you are expressing…the motto of any healthy conversation is…learning something new…about subject and people…

Beware I am more interested in learning about people‚Ķafter all human mind is the most fascinating subject than any other ūüôā

Love ‚̧ AARYA