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I AM A D.A.U.G.H.T.E.R…

Everyone wants to have a MOTHER…a GIRL FRIEND…a WIFE

But nobody wants to have a DAUGHTER

You want a mother…who can take care of you…who can nourish you…love you unconditionally…but you don’t want to have a DAUGHTER

You want a GIRL FRIEND…whom you can flaunt in front of your friends…with whom you can hang out…with whom you can quench your physical desire…but you don’t want a DAUGHTER

You want a WIFE…who can understand you…who can stand by you in thick and thin…who can nourish you like your mother and quench your thirst like a girlfriend…but you don’t want a DAUGHTER

But if you will never have a DAUGHTER…your son will never have a MOTHER…or a GIRL FRIEND…or a WIFE

Love ❤ AARYA

PS…India killed 10 million girls in 20 years…Imagine a world without women…if things will continue like this…the reel life of MATRUBHOOMI will become the future…MATRUBHOOMI depicts a future dystopia in an Indian village populated exclusively by males due to female infanticide over the years…

 

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WHERE ARE THE MANNERS…

What is wrong with girls nowadays…They have started talking and walking like boys…they use rowdy language…their body language has become vulgar like boys…they eat like them, they behave like them 247 365 days…

What has got into them…where are their parents?…can’t they see the way their daughters are behaving nowadays…and in future if some guy rejects them or call them a Ho…they are like you guys are assholes…really…look at yourself MISS MESSY…your reckless and rowdy behavior leaves that kind of impression…and no men in this world likes to have loudmouthed girl in their life…

I hope you girls understand this someday…don’t get lost so much with the modern times…that you lose a decent guy…learn how to maintain the dignity of a lady…we are independent and walking with men…but we should never forget the elegance and poise of a lady…believe me you will earn more respect as a sophisticated bitch than behaving like some roadside Ho…like I said it earlier also…

Being a female is matter of birth…being a woman is matter of age…but being a LADY is matter of choice…What would you like to be…a lady or a…never mind…

Love AARYA

How Can I Change My Identity…

Yesterday our academic cordinator announced…those girls who wants to change their names on the degree certificate please go to university and do the respective process…

To my shock there were ten girls who wanted to change their surname…all of them are married and wanted to give up their maiden name…they have completed the process and now their certificates and marksheets will be embossed with the proud name of their spouse…

Some fellows asked me why am I not changing my surname…I told them bluntly…”my name is my identity and I cannot change it just because some man has put ek chutki sindoor in my maang”…

I love him unconditionally and he knows that…but adopting his name professionally…is a big no no for me…I have created my whole life…my education, my career, my identity on my name…people know me as AARYA…I can’t change it…no not even to make him feel loved and special…

Have you ever thought…you have to change your name everywhere from pancard to passport…what will you do if your husband leaves you someday or he dies…well I know I shouldn’t be so harsh…but be practical…nothing is permanent…he loves you today what if he stops loving you tommorrow…

What will you do if he leaves you or die…you have to start everything from scratch…you will keep running between the offices…trying hard to catch up your identity…but by that time you would be lost in storm of life…

I dont know whether Indian women are the only one who are obssessed with adopting the name of their husband…or it’s quite common in other parts of the world too…but I am so not part of this fake tradition…

People say dont act like a fool…but I am not…just because a girl gets married so she should change her either first or last name…no ways…and if its so why dont these men try to change their name for once…

I feel proud when someone calls me Mrs Vicky Sharma…I flaunt his name with proud when I am in social gatherings and in daily life…but when I am performing on the platform of my professional life…I am just AARYA…and I will keep that through out my life…

My name is not only my identity but also my life…I can’t give up my name to make someone happy

That’s AARYA signing off for today…

WE…means…WOMEN EMPOWERMENT…

Few days ago…I participated in Elocution…my topic was “Are Women Really Empowered?”

I did some research and came to know that WOMEN EMPOWERMENT basically means creating an environment where she can increase her strengths politically, spiritually, socially & economically…

It is a very small meaning of WOMEN EMPOWERMENT…otherwise it has a very vast meaning…

I understood one thing…it is all about giving independence to women…so that she can create her own identity…not accepting the identities created by others or society…where she can explore her own thoughts, emotions, desires & thinking…it is all about believing in yourself & being honest to yourself…not feeling ashamed when you are actually enjoying something…

To have the courage to fight against the society taboo…to have freedom of speech, freedom of choice, freedom to express one’s idea…it means unlocking the wings of women…so that she can fly high…so that she can understand herself better…so that she can identify her true self…

After understanding the true meaning of WOMEN EMPOWERMENT…I realized women are not empowered…if at all women are actually empowered then the crime rate against women in India should have been decreased…but reality is way too different…

If women of India would have been empowered the bill that is passed after Delhi Gang Rape Case…it would have been passed years ago…but women in India are not politically empowered…domestic violence, acid attacks, molestation, eve teasing, rape…all these crime would have been decreased…but they are not…

There are many families and communities in India…which cannot tolerate the voice of the women in their house forget about expressing a thought or a dream…they would be immediately slashed by male members of the family…

You might be thinking what rubbish I am talking about…Sonia Gandhi, Indira Nooyi, Kalpna Chawla…have changed the face of women of India…but they are only a bunch of women who are blessed…otherwise majority of women are still living in doom…the change cannot come immediately…it will take a long time…we need to start from the root…which is education…

I am fortunate enough that I am empowered…my family gave me the opportunity to study and be independent…my family let me live on my terms…they let me fly high…

And today as an empowered woman…I feel that it is my duty and responsibility to empower the other women…are you empowered???…what is your opinion about women empowerment???…

That’s AARYA signing of for today…