Marriages are made in Heaven…???

 

MARRIAGE…is a legal contract between two people who wants to live together for rest of their life…

Nobody knows who started the concept of marriage, but we all have been following this ritual since ages…it is the only function or ritual which is performed all over the world…and I guess every man once in his life time would definitely want to get married, though that is a different thing if they don’t…

People say that once a girl is sixteen, she starts dreaming about her wedding and husband…well I used to dream about my wedding and wedding dress but I never thought about what kind of partner I would like to have…until I met my husband, when I saw him for the first time I never knew that I will marry this cute boy someday, we were just friends…I guess every relation starts with a friendship…but with time I realized that he is THE ONE…I chose him because he is a true Gentleman in every way, he treats me like a Princess till date…he understands that a NO means a NO, he respects my space my thoughts and above all he makes me smile when no one can 🙂 …And I knew he would be the one person without whom I cannot imagine my life, so why not be with him in better and worse…

Well of course, love marriages are dramatic in India, so were mine…but in the end we nailed it and got married in Feb 2012…Thanks to my Dad, it was the wedding of my dreams, though I didn’t get chance to enjoy the food 😦 …this August we are going to celebrate 11 years of relationship…it still feels like yesterday, when a sixteen year old girl met a 20 year old boy…it was crazy, stupid love but God Knows when it turned into matured one…

I understood one thing that Marriage Certificate can never assure that two people will remain together for the rest of their lives…it’s only a piece of paper…it takes love, respect, understanding, trust, faith, and a lot more to make it last…

You can fall in love thousands of time but to make that love last requires hard work…which majority of us don’t want to do anymore…If you don’t believe me check out your wedding and other albums, you will find only happy moments…but in between those happy moments there were lots of rough phases where you had to work hard to make it last… for the world I got married in 2012 but for me I got married long ago… I have been working on my relationship continuously since last eleven years, trust me it’s not easy…but I learned one thing from my mom, “no matter what, don’t give up, stick to it…there might come time when you will feel like giving up, DON”T…just stay there for little more, everything will fall into places”

Remember one thing, there is nothing like a Perfect Marriage or Perfect Partner…when you decide to live with someone you have to compromise and adjust…don’t you compromise and adjust while living with your parents and siblings, you do…Right…you tolerate their each and every bullshit, you stay with them just because you share the same blood…then why can’t you adjust with your partner…

Marriage is a sacred bond but it requires commitment and work…don’t commit yourself until you are confident and sure about yourself…In India, we don’t believe in breaking marriages on small issues…once we get married we stay married for better or worse…And the one vow that I made to myself on my wedding day is this…

“No matter what, I will fulfill all duties and responsibilities of good wife, and I will work day and night to make my relationship last even if I have to break all the rules…I will make sure that with each passing day…our relationship grows stronger, our faith deepens and trust strengthens…I will make sure that we fall in love again and again with each other…till the end of time”

I am reciting this VOW every single day since I got married…It is easy to make or break relations but it is difficult to live with it…holding on to relations is much tougher than quitting…and I don’t believe in quitting…

“I love being married…It’s so great to find that one special person you want to annoy for the rest of your life” 😉

That’s me signing off for today on a bit serious yet emotional note…

With Love

AARYA

 

 

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7 thoughts on “Marriages are made in Heaven…???”

  1. Here, here to that. Love is an action word, a verb. It takes work. Unfortunately, in today’s world of instant gratification and emphasis on feeling and experience, people don’t understand that. They think that being “in love” is a feeling and not a commitment.
    I like how you touched on ‘love marriage’. When I was living in Jaipur, I had people ask me if my marriage was a love marriage. I understood because I knew that there were also arranged marriages in India. But I had never heard that expression ‘love marriage’. 🙂

    1. That is so true…nowadays people give up very soon on love instead of working on it…and love marriage, people are still so embrassed about the term that they call it love cum arranged 🙂
      And i feel there is nothing like love cum arranged or arranged cum love…you either go for love or arranged 🙂

  2. This post is beautiful.Love marriages in India is a huge drama.Most of the time parents agree,but it is the relatives who start saying weird things.Well,I’ve always dreamt of a love marriage.

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