It was a tough day. Not because of summer but because of people I care most and adore most. It’s quite difficult for me to digest why the people who you love most troubles you most. May be that emotional connection bashed you the worst. I felt worn and tattered with these emotional high tides. My rationality went to docks once they are on.
One of my so called young brothers is making me Agony Aunt. Terrible part he doesn’t need my advice. Just he needs that I listen to all his long list of Erich Segal’s Love Story. I felt impeccable earnest to tell him that I am the professor of the subject you are trying to spell. So don’t explain me. Come to point and tell me what exactly you up to.
Well he didn’t like the direct approach. He expected a mature sister from me, one who will listen to all his stories. Its apparent that I am here for you. However my dear Bro, try to learn the pros and cons of the sea you are diving into. Diving into sea, exploring not oblivion perhaps seems to you adventurous. But that courageous act of your makes you numb once you are out of oxygen. However experienced you are in swimming, although won’t sustain once in sea.
I am not here to discourage one who is in love. I am just here to get few answers. Do you really mean that relationship as much as you are pretending? Are you clear and do understand about the differences between love and infatuation. Relationships are bliss, so we should cherish them. Though some of the times, we get confused in understanding the type of relationship we share. Everything appears the same. This ignorance doesn’t beat an individual only but the one too whom you are in relationship with, your families and your loved ones too. The bottom line is never rush, take a deep breath before declaring a relationship to yourself. Examine the authenticity and degree of intensity of your feelings to know how true they are.
I did them all before jumping into mine, just to ensure that I didn’t hurt those who loved me most in journey of getting the one whom I loved most.